One view or takeaway women might be able to teach men is how they desire to be desired. That would mean balancing the mating equality dance that you talk too.

Men will also have to learn how to listen and will realize how hard it is to reject nicely and learn the more subtle skills.

Women need to appreciate that on the average due to societal upbringing, nearly all the men out there unless they are Adonis, have some wicked skill in the arts, or are a captain of industry with the items of being the conqueror … don’t feel love or desired. It starts from birth where male children are touched less and may even be manifested with trauma of circumcision.

Should men feel entitled? No. Women have felt and been placed in the invisible role most of their lives too, and given beauty standards once they cross the invisible traditional biological red line are lost in the shuffle.

But men also know unless they are the truly lucky most skate along invisible too since men are considered disposable. No way some would say, and I would submit selective service where you sign or you are a felon.

We all deserve better, and I believe (and I am very glad for the empowerment of women and equality) are now realize the grass on the male side is concrete and gravel painted green with green broken bottles.

As for the OP observation, you do have to ask do you the qualities and intangibles that women desire? Empathy, sympathy taking care of others, self sufficient, and to have a ride or die loyalty that would make a woman say … yeah I fucking want to tap that …. And then you need to ask is that woman quality enough to be your partner in return and does she have what you need.

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