Presuming a heteronormative view:
If a guy let it happen and it is a woman the guy is gay
If it is a man raping a man both guys are gay
A life time of doubt that equals a woman’s trauma based feelings and fears and then daily affirmation that not only is he not good enough for what he desires (women) but he doesn’t have the confidence to be the “man” that women desire, as such he is a boy/child (or gay).
He knows he isn’t a woman, he feels he isn’t a man, he feels left out and ostracized. What happens to women is beyond horrible with rape; however, picture that layered with no one to talk and only the pain and silent screams reverberating around in your head, where only anger or raw sexual experience is allowed to be exposed from masculinity. Since the heterosexual guy isn’t man enough for sex with a woman, all that leaves is outlets of anger, and if he feels powerless …. over and over it gets repeated at the clock tick of sexual excitement and loss building like a volcano where it explodes or self destructs.
Now for those wonderful souls who are gay, I can’t imagine that hell if the one you desire and love repels you due to rape. I presume that hell is far worse then mine, and for that … I give a virtual hug to those that need it ….
Rape is about domination of power over another person not sex.
Women rapes man with machete is what should have been said ….