Pure bullshit excuse I agree Joe. If it were really a thing, men into male chastity and tease/denial and edging would be talking about it.
So the male version of snopes if I ran it would mark this trend as ...
If you are over charged and a guy, learn to manage your shit. Go home and self love yourself. If you can't do that, then do it before and after, and then remember to ask yourself WTF is up with me and work on your issues.