Read Carlyn Beccia another fantastic author, and yep her analysis is spot on.

Honestly, if I was single and I was a person that another person found reasonably ok to say ... lets go have a dinner and/or drinks?

I wouldn't be on an app. The closest thing you would see is this exactly right here.

Now I can't imagine the hellscape, and frankly from my position of supposed power (ha but I get it). All I know is given the testing and hells, I don't blame women for testing away over and over. It would require engagement, but given the area I am now.

There are a lot of conservative folks out there, and I know I probably would be too much.

I am super happy as you "keep on keeping on", that you found a good base to rise from. I have no doubt you will find your zen and happiness. Good people always do.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.