Sexualization of white knighting never ever ends well "ever".
It is a very important lessons for guys to learn about objectification of the human beings they say they love very much, but in action not so much.
Having intense desire for sexual and love making and protecting your loved one does have a place, but it only has a place when your partner can enthusiastically consent with no fear.
This situation the women can't consent, live in fear, and it is a huge power play situation.
Thank you for writing on this as this is a very important point for guys to actively listen to.