Sharing with my experience …..

In my younger days (dumber and stupid :) ), there was always a woman that was non-responsive (consensual and agreed to). Prior to my assault, I would have thought nothing of it.

After I stopped and then always engaged with verbal skills and touches because I then learned through non-verbal communication safety and comfort wasn’t there.

Did it suck because I was amped up? Certainly, but mentally I got it.

Later I would shake my head when my buddies would “talk” about how it was great because she was tight etc …. why? Well I knew some of the guys weren’t super endowed, and I figured out the looser and wetter a woman was the safer and happier and more into you she was ….

I wish I could have learned this without the assault bit, but it is what it is.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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