Snicker .. in a parallel universe and with different stars aligned … your office for writing would have only a standing desk and a sitting massage chair. One for work and one for after care.
Sitting would not be a normal thing for you that would be rare and when you write great maintenance spankings it would be, when you are blocked … oh you would feel some smartness put back into you.
To this universe for your partner to understand … this act is one of deep intimacy, love, and trust. If you care for her you learn and observe her needs and take care of them as the pain makes the pleasure more intensive. Maybe take note from something of me …
My greatest joy is being trusted with a strong and independent and a feminist woman to feel safe enough to feel submissive. To apply something controlled and very brutal to most people, then since Meaghan has shared to allow her favorite service while her butt cools in the air. Then to cuddle and feel the remaining heat bond with my deep fire 🔥 of my masculine core while she feels safe being held like to perfect silver spoons in a warm cloth of love and trust.
Then to hear …. Thank you (insert name) or daddy.
When she has released the need, she will come out stronger and will fight hard as a true feminist, with the only caveat that she will have no choice but to stand ….
Female warriors need not be coddled by male warriors but made stronger through action and respect like iron in a fire …