So many times no … standards and expectations are there for a reason.

The key thing people need to understand is that one need to find the balance between what should be a standard versus one that is a desire.

Anything that relates to personal safety, comfort, and future potential should always be kept. Those the reflect a packaging aspect or particular sexual needs should be realized and rationalized as desires and wants. Folks should achieve their happiness as long as consent and a balance is made between themselves and others (I e. Give and take).

Be well.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.