So much of this, the hard part for me is that I know a lot of the drift and issues was because I didn't deal with my issues early on.
So for her, really I am an asshole for being a "confused" man. The question now is how to finish and finalize it and see if there is any trust (even though I never cheated sexually with another woman) over 25 years.
So conversation after the bridges are supposedly burned and the relationship toxic trolls are out are wickedly hard.
So 100% on this article, so for me if it gets fixed "great". If it doesn't have X months to work out my issues and problems in a relationship to make sure my next, I don't fuck up.