Some women desire "beta" males, some desire "alpha" males. I believe liberated and empowered women want "natural switch" men who have the ability to be both and then be able to use chivalry and kindness.
Then ... just like women use mystery to keep attention, using raw male desire and energy in using both sides of the "power" dynamic.
Captain of industry woman comes home to her man making a meal, and then watches him clean up dishes.
Then he walks over grabs her by the hair and kisses her deeply and says ...
Bedroom "now", and when I get there the clothes better be off or else you will get spanked.
If she says no not tonight I don't feel well, then they cuddle, but do expect the same desire the next day and next.