Thank you for your purview into your life. The one take away was the one about time. I actually see that as the most important thing for future partners need to understand and get.
If a person is interested in mating and dating those with fun extensions of the person you are dating, then make sure you treasure the minutes you get. As for the counter point to those that have kids and are dating single folks, if seriousness happens in the relationship, remember to pay back in spades and interest due to the patience and sacrifice the other side has given.