I discussed this with some of my more open male friends — those willing to admit their kinks, or lack thereof — and discovered that many of those who have designated kinks have also found someone who will satisfy them. They are not driven by the desire to explore new things. They are up for experimenting, but to them…
That is not the case, like male submission .. kink is usually shunned and being coupled has no relevance to it. In fact it can be worse, especially if the partner is vanilla.
Why? Because those partners will shame and blame and use all of your weakness against you, but if you go out and satisfy it ... it is like you have cheated.