That is not the case, like male submission .. kink is usually shunned and being coupled has no relevance to it. In fact it can be worse, especially if the partner is vanilla.

Why? Because those partners will shame and blame and use all of your weakness against you, but if you go out and satisfy it ... it is like you have cheated.


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