The article should have been written when nice guys turn stalker, or more aptly called “stalker” guys.

This article is shock full of nice views of nice attitudes that stalker’s exhibit, but it is intellectually lazy because it combines what women desire nice attitude and respectful demeanor with the toxic.

Men should stay away from Nice Girls because they exhibit toxic views of clinginess etc … if we swapped traditional gender and placed traditional nice girl views in then the article would be suspected of being written by a toxic MRA ….

I applaud you for attempting to call out this stuff, but it falls short because now in an era where the supply of decent and respectful and “nice” guys are short and conversely sometimes shy/passive …. you are making them retreat further.

A common comment will state they should be real and bold! Well that means now you are forcing them without their consent to be who they are not, which in turn makes the pusher … “not nice”.

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