The benefits which to be honest is all self serving never outweigh the negatives.

But guys want to know when it is ok to send a dick pick? After she specifically asks for it.

But you know what, you don't have too. You can say we can save this for when the relationship is a bit more solid and we talk and text and video chat more, as while she may get inundated with rando "cock" shots, the most important one is one with a guy that is respectful and cares about his partner.

The world is filled with a dime a dozen "hello" there cocks, and few and far between of the real authentic and empathic ones.

It is ironic to me, that so many guys are into it, but hey if we show it on a movie or TV show they look the other way .... fast.