The death of this form requires all genders and people to literally hit rock bottom, and realize that the most important thing is to give more then take, and to love not shame. Forcing expectations on either gender (spirituality views included) turns the whole dance into a If I do X can I do Y) ….

Men are to blame just as much as women are, but the thing is men are mute to their pains and issues and only become unmute when the mask and pain becomes to great and then “a great lash out occurs”. Then … more trauma and more pain and more …. If you give me safety I can give you intimacy …