The greatest example of this in modern life is the "hot for teacher" sexual abuse where an attractive teacher molds and shapes a young boy with sex.

Watch people's reactions and how they act not understanding that the boy literally has been destroyed for life in normal sexual engagement and interactions.

I do get what you are saying though (#metoo), but to be honest gender doesn't matter as much as rape is rape and power play.

If you are raped by a male and you are a CIS-Het, then you are gay

If you are raped by a female and you are a CIS-het, you are a beta loser and not a man.

Either way you are never believed, so that goes into my saying.

If women are hardly believed, men never are.

To share my share ...

https://medium.com/@tegelad/my-share-from-last-year-c76be47a35aa