The hardest part for guys to understand is that communication and vulnerability are king. One needs to learn these things.

If a guy needs help think of it this way, most guys on average see sex as the start of the relationship dance, for women it is the start of the commitment of it …

It is these little things that men need to figure out and the subtlety ….

Also … not every person is the same so generalized labeling doesn’t apply, but you know what …. you are a unique person too who has unique needs …

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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