The important thing I hope is that the guys that are silent that come across my comment, take it to heart and get the therapy they need to heal "and" to know they aren't alone and they aren't weak.

Your words aren't useless at all! If I look at how I healed and grew since this comments, I can't describe what I have done for myself because I let the evil trauma demon loose from me (in a not-hurting others way).

My thankfulness for this is this:

It allowed me to appreciate consent and the hell that women feel and experience. That is a priceless gift, which makes me a stronger more authentic man.