The other angle is to step back and realize that intimacy is more the PIV sex. Mutual Masturbation, oral and so many other fun techniques can be done so both partners can "get off".

So CIS-het women should take examples from women that aren't heterosexual ... need to be penetrated during sex, tell him to strap one on during your most fertile of times.

If he has an issue with making sure your safety and needs are being met, then guess what ... he is not the partner for you.

The fact that some folks hijack safe sex practices with religious morality and assume that shows a lack of depth of knowledge about sex and rigid thinking that leads to dead bedrooms.

If he complains about loss of sensitivy or has ED issues (which does happen), tell him to fight his fears like a real human being does and realize that women die from birth and it's complications.

On the flip side he can have fun too, as oral and anal and toys and everything else can be done for him to "get off" and it can be mixed up.

If it helps women who want to learn more about male sexuality since there can be a void. Let me share what some of my bisexual friends have shared with me. They love PIV sex, but they have also stated that a p-spot orgasm trumps it.

So educate yourself, broaden (consensually mind you) one's outlook, enthuastic consent matters.

If one is religious, that is ok too. Realize God intended two people to give completely to themselves so that means they need to be all-in for the marriage, or else maybe they aren't the ones for each other ...

If a woman desires to be childless and finds the one, then a dicussion about a vasectomy and other male birth control should be done for the partnership. Relationship equality matters ...