The silver lining to this great divide is that the power of those that love foreplay and those that are demisexual or need some connection goes up exponentially.
The greatest organ for sex is between the ears, and that can be done with social distancing at first, since the minds and words turns inches into feet, miles, or kilometers.
Then if touch is necessary, the power of those born before the internet become a big benefit. Why? One knows how to use ones hands “a lot” and to do so in privacy with a mask to hide the O ….. wicked.
Then you can layer all of your other requirements, but honestly as long as the violations of preferences are not awful. The mind will act like that 6th pint after a pub crawl, or delicious smoke while drinking coffee ☕😀
Be well and love on!