The thing is most guys need to realize. If you are against prostate play, you will never feel an orgasm like women feel, which from what I have been told is more powerful then the male version.
Remember men have three zones for pleasure, the tip of the head, the base of the penis, and the prostate.
Men get a taste of the prostate orgasm when they penetrate a woman and they can grind their base into the pelvis of the woman. Others that can learn how this feels are prone masturbators.
Let me tell you the orgasm (as a prone masturbator and learning how to do via hand [longer trauma based story]) is more intense then a hand job, and in some ways equals or goes a bit past normal intercourse.
Enjoying this does not make one gay. This is the worst stereotype, As for woman, it gives them the head rush and power rush of taking her partner (something usually reserved for men), and for men it teaches the joys of being taken.
Men in modern society have no idea what it feels like to be desired or wanted. It is part of the reason things are so messed up between the genders right now.