There is nothing better then the contrast. I have been with some beautiful black women and seeing the white go into dark is a beautiful thing, just like seeing the black go into white is amazing.
I have a horse farm, and "get" biology. I never understood why people were so against mixing up the races and genetics, since that is what mother nature wants and desires us to do.
For those that fight it, I would have to say what in your life caused you to have to retreat to have more of the same. Figure it out, deal with it, and grow and love and be whole!
Enjoy the diversity and like I stated you are in inspiration and amazing. I hope your partner figures out his issues and works through him, because you are rare. I wish and hope women like you can become the normal and guys can learn there is nothing wrong with liberated women "at all".