This falls into my view of a liberated woman who wants to be desired and is clear with her needs to her partner "and" states it directly. No flip of the hair, no wink or subtleness.

Be bold, be brave, and take command.

:) I am so glad it resonated for you. For me it is what makes me "not think", it stops me cold when I see a woman who grabs her masculine spirit and drives it home