This is a cost IMO when the bar for defining men and masculinity is so low. One can’t chastise what folks don’t expect from men as is.

The reality is there are issues in all relationships. Gender doesn’t apply it you are correct woman policing woman is just meant to hold women up and men down and to keep a status tier in check.

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