This is a sexual intimacy preference. I have been with women where they doubled over in pain because I was not skilled enough and dug deep into the Cervix (I learned to be way way more careful and to make sure she was in a very receptive state after that).

I have also been with women that I wasn't enough. I actually used large toys to help one ex. My current wife found those toys and even outed them to my friends in my early relationship because she was disgusted and I just shook my head.

So, if I am with a size queen and she needs more. Guess what I use toys and whatever it takes to make her feel full. I know from practice that look some get when the pleasure and pain thread together, and why wouldn't I want her to feel that every damn time.

This is where my abilities of compersion come from. If my partner needed the scratch itched she is all in from me "as long as she is 100% transparent and honest". She also needs to share the fun stories too, as to hide them is a no-no.

I am above average, and have been with a few black women in my time that joked with me after the fun and stated. I had white and I saw the light, and my favorite memory is from a one-off revenge sex with my buddies girlfriend who found out he cheated on her with my soon to be ex girlfriend.

The combination of race-play and revenge sex and the shit that came out of her mouth was priceless.

One of the phrases that she uttered with pure vengeance towards him, this white stallion knows how to ride me and take me and so you know he is bigger baby ... way bigger "and" thicker then you.

So no this isn't even close to being a fetish, but on the flip side if a woman isn't into large that is ok too. The key thing is to be happy and in consented sex.