This is exactly like my life. I didn't document the ins-and-outs on social media, even though in high tech I had access to technology and services to do so (even pre-Facebook). My comment to my friends was I had too many NDAs with carriers to open my mouth.
So what some people may start to see and get through my replies in comments and other things is that I have a very rich experiences in the "Book of Tegel".
The question as I travel through life, will the person I interact be a footnote, a sentence, a paragraph or a chapter?
Trust me if you are multiple chapters you may become part of the most important part. The warm leather, the soft paper, the clue and strings that make up the cover of me.
Want to know why I am very vivid, have lots of words, and color.
Because I have experienced a lot, I mean my relaxation for many years was sitting in a first class seat drinking wine, scotch, coffee, coke, water reading a book and listening to music while watching the clouds go bye. If not, talking to fellow travelers or FAs in the galley on a red-eye ....
Does one want to embrace FOMO one dimension social media glory, or does want to be a wonderful book that captures the mind, heart, and soul with consent and love?
No wrong answer here ...