This is fantastic. It is all about consent and openness and honesty.

That is it.

If your sexuality is too uncomfortable to share another that is a-ok there is nothing wrong. Communicate it … step back and let those that enjoy and want to live a certain way.

Shame and judge and the person with the issue is not those being looked at but the person holding a mirror.

I can understand and empathize with some folks not trusting, not communicating that people are doing this to cheat and not want to be with another person. That trauma can be real, but remember that demon is in the person with the fear, they need to unpack why they are scared and attack it and ask for help from friends.

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Alan Tegel

Alan Tegel

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

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