This is funny. I am in a committed relationship and have women friends who went from married to divorce and dating. They complained to me about the “lack” of quality, and my initial statement was to them …. ask them what their current books they are reading are.
As a point example, I would then tell them here is what I am reading
6th Extinction by James Rollins
Living a Feminist Life by Sara Ahmed
Technical books (variety)
Erotica short stories (and we need to know each other more before we go there).
I probably wouldn’t list I was a book reading person, and would leave that to the interaction phase personally.