This is probably the best laid set of suggestions out with out being “mean” to guys about how to build history and trust in being an approachable human being for the start of communication.
Do make note guys, this is to be able to walk from the curb on the street to say … may I come up you drive way to knock on you door.
If you do anything opposite, you are the Jehovah Witnesses that come knock on the door to preach the salvation of ones soul. Do you want to be the person opening the door saying. F*CK .. why did I do this ….
Probably not. Be human, be interesting, be proud that you are reading and actually trying to improve yourself by reading female writers in a variety of topics. This is the first step in a fun marathon called life. It isn’t who wins the race but one who does it right and with the best intent and heart .