This is the paradox of masculinity with biological males. They only have lust and anger to communicate, and to be able to actualize the rest requires the female qualities of sincerity and communication to tear the break wall down.
The issue becomes that women only see men for sex and it is the only way men can say I want a hug and to talk but look at my dick pic.
Every damn day it makes me smile that I myself broke that wall down. This powers my confidence in ways I would have never realized.