This is the side effect of men not caring or feeling replacable so they don’t care or opt out. It rolls into other areas, for example, where are the male birth control pills and the fight for them. The reason? Men aren’t accountable and society doesn’t hold them as such.

It is why I stated to some folks if gender stereotypes were flipped, this is one area where women would probably run things in ways foreign to men.

IF I close my eyes and think, it would be similar to stating that after the child is birthed, and the initial two months are passed, if men were required to stay home and take care of the child.

This would change.

Look around and you see men who can’t manage anything or better yet men who just sit their silently supporting men who shout out toxicity but when you label them complicit or bigoted.

They scream not all men or not me …etc.