This is where I believe the porn feedback loop empowers this to the extreme. So as people properly erect good boundaries and walls, those that are deficient huddle behind their own wall in self satisfaction.

Normally, people (mostly woman) will say WTF dude, learn to communicate better, work with us and we will want to do what we want which is open our legs, hearts and minds to you "all the time".

Instead guys in this paradigm, retreat since they know they are out-manned, out-gunned, and out-human'd by women.

Repeat this pattern 10,000 times, which may seem a lot but can only take 10 years or so to truly happen, and boom the peak of masculinity for men is a "3" on a "10" scale where women baseline at "5".

That doesn't seem like a huge leap, but wait for it, boys have access to this from 8-12, so 10 years .... boom

I am not anti-porn at all, or anti-sex work. In fact, I believe it would be a critical component in the development of men and women to have access to a no shame environment.

As for me? I have found african, Persian, central/south american women sexy as hell. Why? Well I believe it comes from a core of genetics in me where I have a very german and northern european heritage background.

Nature is telling me softly in my ear, make "babies" with that and then squeezing ... :D

So I love women so very dearly, so when I was broken I used feminism something I was opposed to reboot my masculinity. When I was locked up mentally inside I used the "Constanza" filter to do the opposite of what my core said.

I then worked hard and still do to respect, care, and support women to the best of my ability. That means with no strings attached. You know what I am finding some slivers of joy in the friendships and bonding with women that make me an "even" stronger man.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.