This is why if I have a next relationship, my partner in crime must be the biggest and baddest feminist.

My statement, I got your back, now go be liberated, when you are back we can talk to the stories of our life and live and love.

A lot of guys will fear this path, and it is manifested in a lack of confidence and the thought they will never be good enough.

The key thing to remember is that the fear is based on a male view. I believe what I see is that if you fight, work, respect, and live to support consensually in all things, that this act and process will be what true masculinities power will win the hearts and minds and soul of the fiercest female warriors.

A fantastic female author provided a view I never realized. I stated the problem is with men we see women as the bearers of life and death, and inately feel all we provide is death.

She stated not from her point, as the raw spark of life and raw male energy is the purest essence of life and empowers women to want to live. (my interpretation)

So, if women are the candle and men are the wick, the key things is how do you empower and liberate women to be the sweetest, warmest candle on the planet and how do you make sure you don't make her unhappy with your labeling and generalizations, so a warm slot can be made to place the male wick in and then the full spark and light of humanity is brought forth with the fusing as one.

Do note the male spirit can be in a woman to be bonded together, and men can also have part candle too, since we are all super diverse and infinitely capable individuals.

So I am here to support and be there to provide comments and as always if our communication proves fruitful, let me know if you ever need support in calling out men that behave badly. For I will be there ...

Be well and write strong and love freely