two people have to “work” to make a third thing called a relationship. To make a family which is more then two people requires even more energy then what it takes to make a relationship.

fantasies of a family are no different then bondage and discipline in sex … to achieve both requires discussion, consent, and a lot of hard work …. otherwise it is nothing but a fantasy.


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