What a fun description of how most kinky folks feel. Look at all the normal on the outside (snicker) but oh boy/girl say hello to my inner demons :)

You learned the most important thing, booze and kink don't mix!

I could never ever play drunk or high, because it ruins the experience, and it ruins the most important thing.

The ability to communicate and actively listen.

I chuckle because isn't it interesting/ironic, because for most folks booze is needed desperately for vanilla oriented sex, and it is a no no for the colorful and crazy world of kink.

(In reality it has no place in both)