What I do know is try to help when and where I can with women and identities that are different then me to help. I also try to spend a little time every week trying to read up more on feminism and other struggles to try to build a knowledge base of better and deeper understanding.
Why? Sure it is all about “me” in a way, but what I am trying to do is not be an ass-hat when opening my mouth and saying something dense, stupid, and offending, while showing positive action.
I have made terrible and horrible choices on my life’s journey, and I can own my actions but I will also know somethings aren’t 100% my fault either due to issues that have happened in my life. But it can’t be used as an excuse for bad action (or inaction) …. learn, grow, and love and for me be the best person you can be. Always helps those in need and be a beacon of light, but sometimes that means one can’t help the person on the field and game of life, but I can be in the stands cheering for that woman fighting the fight and saying you “ go girl … win and you can do it”.
It is subtle but I believe it is a critical thing to observe and read from an excellent article.