What I found is even if I suck at something, I want to work with my partner to get better and be better.
You know practice makes perfect!
My poetry shares a glimpse into my inner soul.
As a guy the greatest success, is when I can take an exhausted or stressed partner and make them wake up and be very very alive.
For guys that may trip up on this comment, my experience is by being very feminine focused on intimacy, will make the masculine side get desired very very much in an explosive way :D
I hope you are doing very well and successful in your life and pursuits of "happiness" :)