What I have learned is most people treat intercourse and sex and physical intimacy as the start of opening of a book.

This is "fucking"

My view is both partner's read each others' book, and then start to create a new book and upon completion of the book. You make love.

This is "love making"

Folks don't realize there will be releases and encouragement to release. One can not have true love, until each partner has self-loved to the point they need not do so anymore.

Words and feelings matter "a lot'"