What is interesting as a guy falling into this category is I definitely do have the male sexual energy, but it has to be 100% on my terms and with 100% trust, since my mind is directly linked to my heart and my loins.

It really does fuck with people’s minds. Though the hidden secret is that people that know of demi-sexuals, once linked up with a partner the dynamic and raw energy from being untapped for a long time will overwhelm the more societal balanced person.