What is really interesting (I am actually an a natural switch), is how I have observed quite a few women shun a man who shows submissive side. They lose the respect, and believe it or not quite a few of them stated they were all-in for equality and feminist and all that.

I even had one that stated I was a liar because I had this extra depth to me when I stated lets switch it up, (she really like being owned and yet was really independent and strong), and it bored her as she didn’t want to be with a woman …. (fucked up no?)

It just proves dicks/cunts know no gender or ideological bound.

If we take a bigger step back, society states we don’t want toxic type of people bringing out the worst of biological gender traits, and yet if you are a man who has a deep desire to serve unconditional in sexual areas …. you get rejected at the mosts intimate ways …

Of course not all women and not all men, but we obviously have loads and loads of insecure, unsatisfied, and in the end “really” boring people. Now that doesn’t mean this (dom/sub) has to be BDSM related either, as sex can be seen as like Baskin Robbins with 31 flavors, since Vanilla can also have 31 different awesome tastes with a sprinkle of fudge, or chocolate sauce or whatever floats your boat …

Great Article.

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