While I do know the core intent of the article is for women, there is a lot of good stuff for guys too.

As the playing field changes with power and what not, guys should to not freely give away the "D".

If my situation changed, I do know personally I would take my time. Does that mean a virginal and chaste view? No. But it would mean there would be a helluva a lot more time working through the traditional "bases" view and build up.

If that would bother a future partner, then obviously at this point there is a huge disconnect, and the fit probably isn't there -or- the damage being carried from other past "bad times" needs to be dealt with.

So knowing I am also a guy, it would be very important to make sure not to fall in that bear trap of expectations and dreams and hope projection too.

Great article as always!

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.