While learning how to be a feminist, I fell into this trap. What one person stated is since I was a male I could never be a feminist only an ally at best and I should get over it.

It took time to process it and your observations are what I also observed. I never gave up and kept learning and growing in my feminism learning and belief, but I was a stubborn SOB and I knew rejection of feminism didn’t serve me well so I said if not me …. and not the treating everyone equally and fairly is wrong … then it must be you.

Every group needs it warriors, but at some point the warrior needs to realize they need to be diplomat ….

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.