You are being kind! 80%, somehow I think it is much much higher (me reading behind the lines :)). In fact with fun and laughter. Let me guess, the 80 percent are three fingers and a thumb not pointing up. The reality is one finger somewhere in the middle right :-p

If one can't plan and follow thorugh the ability to focus on more then 8 seconds of anything will probably "not" happen 'at all' ... ever.

It is a real shit show. I read an article from Alison Stevenson who called out "dating afraid", which had some other fun twists to the dating hell madness.