You can pass to your partner this comment. He is lucky to have a partner like you in his life. I love my partner with all of my heart and soul, but our sexual compatibility is not good. She is loyal AF, loves me with all she has but you know the irony of life ….. pick 2 out of 3.
I totally get the 50,000+ soulmates out there and the few hundred twin flames view, but that can be a topic for another time and place.
What I can share with you that I have shared with female friends (especially those that are very traditional) …. edging and role reversal is a very powerful set of twists to execute between two people. In fact, I am of the opinion if one desires to keep the intimacy to always between two people and no more, you have to mix it up in this way.
Women have a G-spot, men have a p-spot. My gay friends have told me all about it (of course in great detail and with pure humor of telling me don’t worry let us be the one to bring you over to the other team :) ). I learned not only that but I also had a window into the view of what women have horribly have had to deal with dick-pics, highly aggressive and handsey and to the point when I visited a friend a few times … he had to pretend he was my boyfriend (sound familar) ….
I do believe men are missing out on this and so much more … the hard part is breaking down the trust walls to realize that identity and sexuality are mutually exclusive.
My goal is to find out why my partner is so averse to it and gain the trust of her to let her guard down, or at some point say …. sweety I desire this deeply and if you can’t or won’t do this we need to figure something out.
Relationships … the hardest thing two (or more) people will ever do, and for those souls with tremendous love to give …. the work increases exponentially with every person added.