You put into words exactly the feeling that I had but couldn't verbalize. (which is a trait that happens to men a lot believe it or not).
The even better ones were ones that created honey pots to trap folks that may have the biases built upon where they lived and then they rammed home their weaknesses and took joy from it.
But in the end it is all the same poison, so in the future when I encounter folks like that ... I will say so you want to replace one systemic racism/sexism with another by your actions and intent. Gee, that doesn't sound right (or kosher).