You sound like an amazing man with empathy in spades. Moving to the Texas area and seeing and meeting the people of Oklahoma (I am a Texoman now). I can definitely see the horror show of bias you have to live in..

If I try to think about your position, it is having to puff up my chest (I am a bigger guy) to hide my more sensitive side because I don’t want to be taken advantage of “or” to make myself seem weak so my partner isn’t at risk.

So I hope you wear clothes, dress how you feel like, live in your gendered spirit and feel fully empowered as a man.

Be well.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.

Lover of people, Texas Feminist Liberal Democrat, Horse Farm, High Tech Gadget ENFP Guy, and someone who appreciates the struggle of women and wants to help.